Bridesmaid-zilla!

I am definitely the bridal consultant that loves weddings! From the dress to the cake testing, each aspect of planning excites me. As a result of this wedding obsession, when I am not in the bridal salon, my television is tuned to bridal shows...but who would have guessed that! My current indulgence is TLC's Say Yes to the Dress. As if I don't see enough wedding gown drama in our own salon, I still enjoy watching brides find the gown of their dreams. However, I was a little disturbed by one brides experience. She was forced to endure the wrath of a Bridesmaid-zilla!
I'm sure that many of you have heard of a bridezilla (or may be experiencing brief moments when you feel like one)! The bridemaid-zilla however, is that very opinionated bridesmaid who feels that your day is also her day (and secretly wishes it was). The bridesmaid on Say Yes to the Dress refused to let her friend (the bride) try on any dresses that she did not like. Even if the bride liked a dress, the bridesmaid was quick to chime in, "nope, that's not it." I have seen far too many bridesmaids voice their opinion even when it was in direct opposition to the bride. Is that the kind of bridal experience that you want? Finding your bridal gown should be an experience that you enjoy and allows you to revel in the memories for years to come. Therefore, my advice is as follows:

Choose one or two close companions to join you:
Choosing your wedding gown should be a special moment. Bring your mother and maybe a close friend that will be honest but will still value and respect your opinion as the bride. It is very difficult when the entire bridal party is around and they all have very different styles and visions for your dream gown. Ultimately, remember that you want to be a representation of yourself on your wedding day. Listen to your heart and remember that the moment you begin your walk down the aisle, your groom and guests will see you as an apparition of pure beauty.
~Nicole