Yesterday I stumbled upon this image of one of my former brides, Lauren. Instantly, I felt it represented what weddings should be all about . . . You and Him! As we blog about the many fantastic and even hilarious memories(such as the time our bride had to do a certain dance to test out a dress) we also recall the more challenging situations that have came up throughout the years. No, we don't really get bridezillas. What we do get is relatives and friends of the bride that put their opinion before the opinions of the bride. This repeatedly breaks our hearts.
When you're out wedding planning its okay to ask for advice from someone that knows your style. Its just advice though. You can take it or lose it. A wedding should represent you and him. That's the beautiful thing about weddings. They all display the style of two people and show the story of how they met. If your maid-of-honor is taking over your wedding, it won't be your story. Stick with what you want. Consult your fiance if you're ever in doubt. Besides, he is one that should know you best at this point.
"Now join hands, and with yours hands your hearts," William Sheakspear.
I've asked several brides if there was anything they would change or was it just perfect? They always say they wish they didn't let others get so involved in the planning. Your wedding shouldn't be put on a judges table. It should be relaxing and about "You and Him"
Don't forget: Make it a fun planning experience. So many of our brides get distraught by making a decision, espeically when it involves several peoples decisions. The hard decision was finding the guy. Thats done! Now, you just have to make sure your not wearing jeans to the wedding.
Image by K-Gallery
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